Firstly, conduct a reality check on yourself. Do you really want to get back with your ex? Take stock of what happened and how the break-up occurred. If you were to blame, are you willing to change? Soul searching is very important because you do not want to end up with the same result again. Once is good enough. If you are sure you want your ex back, you should be willing to change and not make the same mistakes again.
Next, if you are sure you want your ex back and are willing to change for the better, you need to speak with your ex. You can try to make contact on phone or even drop an email or personal mail. If you get a response, you can be rest assured that your ex is at least willing to speak with you. However, if you fail to get a response, you may go down to your ex’s place or try to find out from other sources if your ex is seeing someone else.
Once you manage to meet up with your ex, be sure to make things right. Apologize, if need be and show that you are unhappy that things turned out the way they did. Be very sincere. Do not try to be sheepish and do not even think about sweet talking. These would make you come across as being insincere.
Apart from being sincere and apologetic, you need to be very careful not to dig into your past. The break up could have been caused for various reasons. Both of you are well aware of those, and you need not repeat and bring back those memories. Even when you are apologizing, be general and do not recount the incidents and talk about them.
Also, ensure that you do not hog your ex at getting back together. The break up would have caused a lot of distress and anger for your ex, as much as it would have hurt you. Therefore, give enough space and time for your ex to think about getting back together, if you are willing to work out things and give your relationship another chance.
Relationships are fragile and you will need to give enough time, space and importance to the relationship to make it blossom. Break ups may occur for a variety of reasons and you may later realize that many of those were mere ego clashes or minor things compared to your feelings for each other. There could also be compelling reasons because of which you may want to get back together with your ex. However, you need to understand that you are dealing with a person and not a thing. The person has his/her own feelings and you need to make sure you understand and respect that. If you manage to get back your ex, make sure you do not make the same mistakes again.
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