You must learn to use cunning if you wanting to get your ex back. Coming back together with you may be the last thing your ex is contemplating, although it is your principal preoccupation. You will need to be careful when you are discussing matters with her to avoid her seeing what you are up to.

When they are not ready to bury a relationship, people often try to get their ex back. At the end of a break up, you often find one of the two parties trying to get back into the relationship. The person wanting to move on might understand that you were both not ready to split and as a result they want to get their ex back.

Give the impression that you are moving on and that all is over with your ex. Get out and enjoy yourself. Let all your friends see that you are enjoying yourself. The message will get back to your ex who will think you are moving on quicker than she is and this will make them think that the are missing out on something.

When you talk with your ex, just say you are happy, without explaining what you are doing. They will likely be a little envious. Try to leave them thinking that they should be organizing their life to be able to be happy as well. This will give the impression to your ex of being stable which is always mentally gratifying. And you are preparing her for the come back on your terms.

Do not make it obvious that you want her back; you have all the time you need so take it. You may be thinking of her everyday, but who cares as long as she does not know? Leave her alone for two weeks before ringing and asking how things are going. Adopt a tone as if you were an old friend trying to get back in contact with her.

If she starts talking, just listen to her. She will find it so unusual to have someone on the line who is listening to her. She will start to need you because she needs someone who will listen to her, and you are well on the way to get your ex back.

The friendship now well developed, your ex may by now want to return. Whilst all you want is to get your ex back at all cost, it will likely be that she is chasing after you and rushing to make the first move. It is always better for your ego to have your ex coming after you, when you know it is really you who wants her to return. “Use cunning to get your ex back” does work!

I also suggest you read a book written by T ‘Dub’ Jackson, “The Magic of Making Up”. It is very easy to read. T’Dub’ has helped numbers of people throughout the world who had difficulties like yours, to understand their relationship problems and successfully overcome them.

Joe Bisley