Listen dude, I know (believe me) that being dumped is tough. It eats you up. Especially if your girlfriend was the woman of your dreams. And even more so if she used to be yours for more than a year. A breakup an extremely painful experience to endure, one of the worst things a guy can go through.

If you are currently in this situation, you are at a crossroads right now. You will have to choose what you are going to do straight away. This is going to be your Battle Plan, you must do one of these two things. Only you can make the choice, and listen, there is no right or wrong here. But choose with care.

Choice number one: You can try to go through the pain, feel the true force of it. It will hurt like hell for some time. But after that you can let time heal your heartache bit by small bit. It will definitely heal, at some point. And the experience will make you stronger.

Choice number two: You can put up a fight once more, and really give everything you’ve got to win your ex girlfriend back. Make your true love yours again.

If you choose the latter, then you will need to come prepared. This game is not for sissies, you will need to man-up. Crying and whining, or stalking her is not gonna do it for you. You need a solid plan, and you need to pull yourself together.

If you want to learn some advanced solid psychological methods (that have produced proven results for 83.6% of the guys who were man enough to put them through a full test) do yourself a favor, and get an expert on board.