When you get been dumped, the first thing that goes through your mind is how can I get back what I just lost. It can then become an obsession that leads you to foolish behavior and the death of any chance at reconciliation.
Getting dumped makes you feel bad enough without the shame and embarrassment of your actions when your heart is broken and your thoughts are cloudy. I know, because I have been dumped and acted foolishly afterward.
The question is, “How can I get my ex back”. The answer is you need a plan. You need to know which buttons to push. More importantly, you need to know when NOT to push any buttons at all.
Take it from experience, the plans you make with a broken heart can cause you more pain than the psychological nuclear bomb you just experienced. You need to hear the voice of reason to avoid mistakes.
First, you should decide if you really want the person back. That is an individual choice. Do you really love this person, or are you just suffering from the rejection of someone you let get close to you?
I was watching Two and a Half Men the other day. Alan wanted to break up with his girlfriend and when he finally got her to a place where he could do it, she dumped him first. He wanted out, but went nuts over her rejection anyway.
Before you start out on the journey to winning back your ex, make sure you really want them back to begin with. Don’t think about all the things you will miss. Consider the annoyances you have been relieved of instead.
If you decide you want your ex back, it can be done. Sound advice and positive action is needed. But don’t wait too long because there is a time when it is too late to do anything about it.
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